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Action Principle No.52>> Avoid Negative People, You have one life to live. You want to be happy and to make your life meaningful. You haven't got time to waste with negative people. They will drain your energy. When they find a willing audience, they won't let it go. They may have justifiable concerns but too often get involved in minor matters. They blame and look for excuses. Even when blame can be justified it serves no productive good. They are usually negative because they have ceded control of their happiness to others - the boss, the neighbors, the kids, the politicians, the police.
Be polite and encouraging to negative people. You can be compassionate, but still be strong enough to walk away. Everyone has problems, but not everyone allows those problems to rule them. You can offer a temporary safe haven without becoming a permanent home. You do not have to sacrifice your life to the problems of another.
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